First Date Tips for BBW Singles

bbwsinglesFor all you BBW singles, it can be exciting to find a match online. You begin chatting with this other person (maybe a BHM, or Big Handsome Man) and immediately you begin thinking about the potential. After a few days or weeks, you both realize it’s time for the next step … the first date.
Boy, oh boy. That can instill fear into anyone’s heart. You want this date to go great, but you also want to be safe. Let’s talk about some important tips for BBW singles that can do just that.
1. Meet in public. On that first date, make sure it’s a public place. A restaurant, nightclub, or even the library are all good places. Just make sure there are plenty of other people around.
2. Let a friend know. Tell a friend or family member where you’re going, when you’ll be back, and who you’re meeting. You can’t be too safe.
3. Show up. When some people get nervous, they may back out of their first date. You may text, email, or call that BHM to let him know you won’t be there, but don’t do that. Get out there and go. You’ll feel so much better later that evening.
4. Avoid drinking too much. You may go out for a beer or have a glass of wine with dinner. But that’s it. Keep it cool and think ‘professional.’ No, you’re not out on business, but treat the first date like you would be meeting your boss to talk about a promotion.
5. Listen. Avoid taking over the conversation. Let the other person have a chance to tell his story. Bite your tongue if you notice yourself cutting him off too much. Even if he’s talking about football, be polite. There may be some interesting stories mixed in there that you’d miss if you weren’t listening.
6. Give the date a chance. You might very well know that this isn’t the right person for you within the first 10 minutes. If your match lied, end the date. If not, but you know it’s not right, use this as an opportunity to practice for future dates. Who knows … you just might become good friends.
7. Pay attention to body language. Your body language tells a lot about you. Pay attention to posture, eye contact, and more. If you exude confidence, listen, and focus on your date, then it’s a good first date, whether or not you or he decide to go out again.


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